I must be blind, please help me out.....

[ToThrottleablackbird]

Can someone please thell me where it says collection only on this item

I cannot see it anywhere???

You can get parcel2go to send it for £7 - tell her you'll cmpromise and split the cost, then its only £3.50 each...

Btw, I havent said I would not be willing to pay for a courier, but it does state free p+p, she is saying it doesnt, thats why I posted here in the first place.

She made a mistake-if she pays to send it to you she is giving it away! You only got it at that price because other people realised she had made a mistake and didn't bid IMO.
The fairest thing is to both admit you made mistakes and let her relist it.

Open the item link.
Press the "print screen" button" on your keyboard.
Open Paint and click "paste".
This pastes a ciopy of the screen so youc an then save it as a picture and show her that it does say "free P&P".

Doesnt matter now. She realised her husband had done the listing wrong and said I could arrange a courier which Ive done.