Really not sure why I’m posting but I hope just writing this down will help.
Already have one DC with a father who is around (although we are separated).
I’d LOVE to have another child (am single so would be donor sperm) but I have serious reservations about conceiving a second via donor when I already have a child who has regular contact with their father. I’m worried that the sibling bond would be strained due to the different situations and that I’d be fiercely judged because of it.
Has anyone else done this/felt this/chosen to go ahead or not in similar situations?
I’m at a bit of a crossroads and tbh it’s melting my head 
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