This isn't a question more of a rant. I had my FDR hearing yesterday. The judge hadn't read the bundle we sent because he didn't log onto the FDR portal. He took a few mins to skim through everything. He wouldn't hear arguments of equality or that I sacrificed my career to be a SAHM so my ex could work long hours, didn't take my son's health condition into account. Believed my ex's version of events and awarded 33% of the total pot to me and the rest to my ex. It was devastating as my ex cheated on me and then proceeded to move money and lie on his Form E and didn't answer our disclosure questions. I feel like I've been completed reasonable and transparent throughout and I've just been punished for not being sneaky and awful.