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Child benefit in my name but his contact details

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Shalalalalaohbaby · 16/10/2025 06:19

i have been separated from my ex since the beginning of the year. Still living in the same house but I am moving out soon. The child benefit was set up in my name however he has the government gateway number and the account email and telephone number are his. He is being awkward and won’t give me the details to log in. If I contact them by phone will they help? Basically he’s claiming the money when I am the main carer of the children.

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RandomMess · 16/10/2025 06:45

i think you need to speak to them, for all you know he’s changed it to his name.

Beachlovingirl · 16/10/2025 09:36

Is it your national insurance number on the child benefit set up or his? Either way please call them as I’m sure this is a situation they are used to dealing with.

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Child benefit in my name but his contact details
Child benefit in my name but his contact details
Beachlovingirl · 16/10/2025 09:38

Oh the images aren’t added well basically it says to call them and say:

  • You are the named claimant on the Child Benefit.
  • Your ex-partner is accessing the account or receiving payments via their Government Gateway details.
  • You believe this is unauthorised use and you need to secure the claim and ensure payments go to you (the rightful claimant).

Ask HMRC to:

  • Verify your identity.
  • Lock or reset access to your account.
  • Stop or redirect payments if necessary.
  • Help you set up your own Government Gateway ID securely.
FuzzyWolf · 16/10/2025 09:40

Just call them. They can confirm CB is still in your name (assuming it is) and reset all the login information.

Shalalalalaohbaby · 17/10/2025 07:07

Thanks so much will ring them today! Xx

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