Best time to tell 20 yr old

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My 20 yr old daughter is at uni and due back home in a couple of weeks for the summer. Me and OH have decided to split up after 30 years. It’s all very amicable but do we tell her by FaceTime while she is still at uni and will have her housemates/friends for support, as I know others parents have divorced, or do we bring her home and then tell her? (as we will be collecting her!)
It breaks my heart thinking about what’s best for her.

God no - definitely not a conversation for FaceTime!!

I know it sounds dreadful saying by FaceTime but I just don’t want to be in the scenario that she gets home snd has no one here to talk to as most of her friends from here are at uni, etc

She can call them. Tell her face to face.