ex and i split a couple of months ago and he moved back to his parents, took all his stuff with him. it’s been okay between us, had our moments but getting along okay. he has issues with alcohol abuse and smoking weed and after finding he had been messaging prostitutes i decided enough was enough
he can be very narcissistic and makes me feel like i’m out of order in a lot of situations
in the past few weeks he’s gone through my ipad and all my messages and picked fault at things i’d said etc etc
so yesterday he asked if i was at work today and i said yeah, thought nothing of it. then he asked again this morning and again i thought nothing of it. but when i came home the house felt off, stuff looked like it had been moved and randomly stuff had gone missing out the fridge. i asked him if he’d been here and he said yes…to which i said ‘okay were you looking for something? he bluntly just replied nope. so i said ‘did you need something?’ and again he just replied nope. is this strange behavior? he said he couldn’t come and see the children today but managed to make it here on his lunch to snoop?
for context, he has no stuff here. he has a key still as technically it’s still ‘our’ house until it sells but i feel uneasy about him coming round.