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Child meeting partner of my STBEXH

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Frazzled54 · 17/11/2024 21:33

My husband told me in June he had met someone else. He said he was in love with her and saw his future with her.

We told our DC in July. Child is 11.

Ex moved out in September. Living with his mum while we sort finances out.
He has DC a couple of weekends a month.

He wants to introduce his girlfriend this weekend.
He’s been with her a year now although we’ve only known for a few months.
i know legally I can’t stop the introductions but I can tell DC is uncomfortable although has agreed to meet her.

I’m absolutely devastated and still getting over the fact he’s totally ripped our lives apart. I feel so angry and sad. He’s moved on so quickly and just discarded his old life (together/married 20
years)

Any advice on how to deal with this? My only
child. And she gets to share and enjoy him. I feel sick 🤢

OP posts:
millymollymoomoo · 17/11/2024 21:37

Just send her off with no pressures. No pressure to like this woman ( who’ll be trying hard) , equally no pressure to dislike her.

and don’t let her see that you don’t want her to go or that you’re upset about it

millymollymoomoo · 17/11/2024 21:39

Sorry said her when rereading think it’s him.

either way just keep it cool, no pressure. And then keep yourself busy

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