Quite clear that mediation is not going to work - we've had 1st separate meeting and are poles apart.
As much as I hoped to avoid it I realise I need some legal advice or I stand to lose a significant (to me anyway) amount of money. He is being manipulative and psychologically abusive but I refuse to just let him decide my financial future.
I live Cambridge/Suffolk and would welcome any recommendations for a firm that can help me.