Unfortunately my stbxh and I disagree on the days/nights of the week we take care of our children. He will not change his mind at all and I can’t due to work commitments, therefore I have no choice but to obtain a court order. I am absolutely terrified about this. We are in agreement over a 50/50 childcare plan. Has anyone been to court due to a disagreement with their partner over arrangements? Or anyone with any advice? He is refusing to go to mediation over it.