Kid meeting new women

[Sallyxox]

Hi,

so long story short hubby left me 5 months ago just under. He cheated with a women denied it etc.
anyway found a way to be civil things going ok as can be set days etc.

yesterday sent me a message asking if he can let es meet the girl he’s seeing (different girl to the one he left me for) and first I new someone else was on the scene cos he won’t ever admit out till it benefits him.

anyway I’m super stressed, pissed he text me that seen as his in my house twice a week you’d think he’d have an actual chat about it. I don’t no who this women is, does she have kids, is she nice?

so me and him are on the worst terms possible now cos when I show my concerns I get “I’m gonna change my number”

still waiting my divorce that he’s not doing so obv gonna have to do that myself.

just any advice please?

He can let them meet the new girl, and all those that come after her, without your permission, so you might as well say yes. That way he’s not getting one over on you.

Yeah this is what I thought. A lot of people are saying it’s too soon so I kinda felt like a bad mum saying yes but he would do it anyway.

He basically posed a statement as a question. He was telling you. I’m not going to disagree on the too soon opinion. But it’s what a lot of men and women do.

How he is as a man and father are beyond your control. Time to let it go.

Remember your children will be more stressed about seeing acrimony between you two than meeting some woman. She will just be an annoying adult to them.