I made another post about snoring in the relationship section but what I really should have posted about how to approach separation. There is a huge disparity between my and my dh’s earning, both now and further into our careers. I’ve pretty much hit the ceiling and he is earning over 3x what I do and it will only keep climbing.
The life I can provide the dc(10 and 13(a ds and dd) so they can’t share a room is what paralyses me with fear as we are still looking at a 3 bed property. He will be able to afford the family home on his own so the dc will just want to stay there with him
Even if I could stay in the family home it’s not sustainable longer term with my lengthy commute(3 hours per day even more on occasion since it can take over 2 hours when traffic is at its worst) I wish I’d been thinking of my career when we purchased but instead my entire focus was on providing the best life possible for the dc. I’ve been looking for other roles closer to home but they are few and far between. I am at a complete loss of how to navigate things. How can I survive 8 more years of this if I can’t separate…