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Ex is not listening to 14 y old wishes

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Unloved1 · 01/06/2023 15:00

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/divorce_separation/4811232-my-14-y-old-is-feeling-forced-to-live-with-her-dad-and-older-sis?reply=126347590

She said she had ask for a 50/50 but he said blantly said no. Because he doesnt want the kids to split up, want them to be in a stable household. 🤔 🤔 (even though he gambles and has been out every night for months...when we were ok ish, he was out 3 nights a week at local pool and once a month at a county pool match which lasted all day).

So she feels she got no say in this at all and gotta follow Dad.

I'm so dumbfounded!!!

My 14 y old is feeling forced to live with her Dad and older sis | Mumsnet

(my ex told them to sort out who they want to live with after the divorce (which i told my ex do not do that as its cruel. Hes a gambler, im a moaner)...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/divorce_separation/4811232-my-14-y-old-is-feeling-forced-to-live-with-her-dad-and-older-sis?reply=126347590

OP posts:
Unloved1 · 01/06/2023 15:14

I know exactly whats this all about...

He doesn't want to pay the child maintenance like he used to with his 24 yr old dd years ago.

OP posts:
RedHelenB · 02/06/2023 10:35

She's old enough to decide. Tell her she can change her mind any time

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