I have just paid to have a matrimonial charge on the family home. I moved out and my ex still lives there, it was originally his home before I moved in. We have a 5 year old son together.
My solicitor advised me that the first thing I need to do is put a charge on the home so he can't sell or remortgage it without my knowledge. She has told me that he will not find out about the charge unless he goes to remortgage.
I really don't want him to find out until the divorce is started etc and that will be in April. Is this correct that the Land Registry will not notify him? I know he will go nuts if he finds out.