Has anyone ever divorced a good person?

[helloyou47]

Has anyone gotten divorced from a "good" person, and if so how did you come to that conclusion and how did you feel afterwards? Do you have children?
I think I've grown up with relationships ending because something "bad" happened (cheating/abuse etc), rather than feelings just changing.

No. But I recommend the book "too good to leave, too bad to stay" as a really practical guide to identifying what's causing you to feel this way about your marriage, whether people in a similar situation were happier leaving or staying and steps to take if the outcome for most people is better when they stay. Its a great book.

Yes. Father of 2 of my children . Good man but we grew apart, I wish him happiness and health. We both moved on. Nothing bad to say we were too young.

@AdamRyan

No. But I recommend the book "too good to leave, too bad to stay" as a really practical guide to identifying what's causing you to feel this way about your marriage, whether people in a similar situation were happier leaving or staying and steps to take if the outcome for most people is better when they stay. Its a great book.

Thank you, I'll check that out

@Derrymum123

Yes. Father of 2 of my children . Good man but we grew apart, I wish him happiness and health. We both moved on. Nothing bad to say we were too young.

How did he feel about it? Did he feel the same or was he happy in the relationship?