Exh and I share care of SEN DD16. We also have Adult DS.
Exh recently sold ffh he had fought to keep and bought a much bigger place with gf and her 3 kids.
DD has is saying she can't tell me where the new home is past the town. If I need to pick up it will be from a nearby shop.
There are no restraining orders in place and if anyone has been passively abusive it was him (using my drive and lounge if DD will let him in as his personal tip).
I don't have any wish to have any part in his life past caring for DD but I feel it isn't right but I know at 16 she is deemed able to do everything but from several comments lately it seems this may be the latest in a run of controlling behaviour which he used to keep for me.
Is there anything I can do to get them to let me know where she is just as an in case of emergency?