Read other post regarding what has been going with our adopted child . I love the child so much but my husband after a divorce decided to really show that he does not care in that way by the things he says and just the complete lack of care towards child. How do I move past this hurt? Even after a few months it’s still hurting when I concentrate on it I try not to...I don’t want it to consume me but honestly just feel so betrayed in the worst way that my child has been abandoned and the way my soon to ex husband is carrying on having a great time so care free after leaving a family of many years and to basically switch off emotions it’s not my real kid etc when that was not what happened for all those we was mum + dad and child and integrated in the families ...I need to move on but don’t know how :(