Pretty much at breaking point so have started thinking about a separation from my husband.
Instead of asking him to leave, which I’m sure he would - I feel like I want to leave (with kids obviously, but reckon we would have pretty much 50/50 anyway) - I just feel like a fresh start may be better even if it means downsizing etc. All the while I’m here I’ll feel like I’m in his house etc. Has anyone been the one to leave and how did it work out?
I’m financially dependent on him but due to some inheritance I would be able to pay rent for a good while until I found a job.
Go easy on me even if you think it’s a terrible idea.