Hi, my decree nisi is due to be pronounced this week and I'm the petitioner. My stbxh has another ex wife he is desperate I don't contact. I want to contact her regarding her experience of his abuse and to answer any questions she has about his abuse of me. I feel like this will help me heal from it. Anyway, if I contact her between nisi and absolute he can't stop it can he? It's an online uncomplicated divorce on paper