I'm tired of living in an unhappy marriage, so I initiated the decision of going through a divorce. I know it might seem selfish from my side to do so when we raisin two children (8 and 12 y.o.), but the last couple of years was a living hell for me. Is there any tips about how I can reduce stress for children at the time of divorce? I don't want them to feel shocked, I want that divorce went as peaceful as possible. Also, divorce in Florida is very expensive, hiring a lawyer will cost somewhere around 12000$, maybe you can give any advice on lowering the cost of divorce or any useful links like divorce or alimony calculators? I'll be thankful for any help!