So I would love to pay someone to figure out my financial situ but there must be a set of guidelines somewhere to help us all. I've been married 16 years together 19+. I stayed at home for ten of those years looking after our two children whilst husband travelled the world working his way up his career ladder. He went from £17k a year to £120k a year. He covers all bills and my full time wage £16.5k covers children's hobbies and bits. Any ideas guys?