Our separation was made easier by the fact that he got a job abroad and now lives there. He comes back to see the kids every month or so and talks to them regularly. We're not in other relationships. We plan for family holidays with the kids. I've got used to how it is so not made plans to divorce and bumbling along like this. But every now and then I feel like I can't move on or date anyone because I'm not divorced. Or is it something that will come when the time seems right?