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Divorce/separation

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We had the happiest moments together. He ended it because he wants kids (I can't cuz of age). But now he is not contacting me, and ignore me. Why? But we never fight.

6 replies

Bluez · 09/07/2019 18:19

Why is he ignoring me, completely gone?

OP posts:
ReganSomerset · 09/07/2019 18:20

Did you post this a week or so ago too?

ProteinshakesandAntonsAss · 09/07/2019 18:23

Because the relationship is over.

He wants kids and you cant have them.

Ideally he would have figured this out sooner. I do think people in the first flush of a relationship, think things like that wont matter. As love as you are together as a couple it doesnt matter.

Then as things settle into a routine, you realise that actually the thing you said you didnt mind going with out is something you really want.

OP why do you want to get touch with him? He is your ex. Contact between the two of you wont help.

And you certainly dont want to be in touch with him if/when he meets some and has kids with them.

Is ther a big age gap between you?

ReganSomerset · 09/07/2019 18:28

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/divorce_separation/3631373-Men-left-because-you-are-passed-a-childbearing-age

Why are you starting a second thread about this, OP?

Zucker · 09/07/2019 18:47

He wants a clean break.

ColaFreezePop · 09/07/2019 22:24

OP if you keep messaging and calling him he can take action against you for harrassment. Remember mobile phones store when calls are recieved plus voicemails, SMS, etc.

Your relationship is over so leave him alone.

BarbedBloom · 13/07/2019 13:27

Maybe he is trying to be kind. He knows it will be painful for you to see him dating and meeting someone. A lot of people just want a clean break as it can be easier for both parties once the initial pain has passed Flowers

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