That’s it really.
I have a new partner. I’ve moved on I’m happy. But the divorce has been horrific and isn’t over yet - he’s still living in our house with all my possessions etc. Contact order done.
I feel massively flat about his new partner in my home, rationally I force myself to just let it go and trust the system will prevail and it will be ok, she sounds nice the kids seem to like her but I still feel irk about it when ex is being a complete arse to me at every opportunity.