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Divorce/separation

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Living the single life before he has even moved out!

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Timeofchange2019 · 05/02/2019 19:46

My oh ended our relationship at the beginning of jan which is fine with me so we are going through separation ...due to financial constraints we can't afford for him to move out until March. He spends alot of time with younger guys (he is 42 and they range from 27 to 35) so constantly just heads to the pub afterr work or says he will be back to put our 9yr old to bed then we get a call to say good night instead. He apologises each time and then does it again like tonight. It all feels really unfair, he is allowed to start his single life now whilst i still remain the responsible one ps - our 9 yr old has already noticed and keeps saying she doesn't trust him to his face. Will this continue to get worse? It really does appear a little midlife crisis too 😆 I am starting to really dislike him and we were planning to stay amicable for our childs sake which he is making very difficult..how do i stay patient?

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WetWipesGoInTheBin · 05/02/2019 20:46

You need to sort out some sort of parenting plan with him where he spends a couple of evenings after work solely looking after your child. On those evenings you go out - even if you are sitting in a friend's house watching telly.

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