Ex has refused to make child care arrangements with me using mediator. Instead let’s me know when he will have the children. This has been going on for nearly 5 years but the kids miss him. They have asked to live with him half the time and he agreed but Has warned me it will be only for a few months. He has been inconsistent witb his care and I’m afraid this will only brake their hearts if he takes them and then moves away. I want to settle a child arrangement order in court but was told court cannot force him to have his kids Is that so?