Long story short (and mostly because I just lost my previous post) ex OH and I are still living together post split back in May. It is unbearable for both of us and DC's. I can't afford to buy him out but he can buy me out. I could hopefully find something else somewhere. So, other than my share of the equity.... how do we deal with thing like......we both recently paid to have a brand new kitchen fitted with all new appliances and also most of the furniture would have to stay in existing property and I replace ( Ie DC's beds, desks, other beds and so on) .... How is this normally dealt with? Any thoughts/experiences shared welcome. x