Just discovered 5yr affair

[Wife123]

So, I got married in 2002. Have 2boys 11&13. Just learned concrete evidence my hubby has had an affair for five years. She is 20 years younger than him. Our sex life has been non existent for longer than that. He provides financially and is a good dad. Do I just accept this silently, or break up our family

Do u really think you can just forget this.... or do u think you derserve better.... is he just gonna carry on ?

I'm sorry OP

He could provide financially and be a good dad from another house though.

You don't have to put up with this, it is so disrespectful.

He would be breaking up the family, not you.

He can still provide financially for his children and be a good dad without you having to turn a blind eye to his infidelity.
Find your self respect and your dignity and tell him to sling his hook.

Plus he might leave anyway at any moment . At least this way you know it was your choice . That's how I'd see it.