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Positive stories of reconciliation after separation

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Kaybelle87 · 09/04/2018 17:50

Hi,

I'm just looking for positive stories of couples getting back together after separation or divorce.

Would love to hear your tales of love lost and then rediscovered.

My husband and I have had a very tough 2 years and he wants his space. Which I understand. We have been together 14 years and have a gorgeous 7 year old daughter. He says he needs his space and that he still loves me very much just that love has changed in the last 2 years with all our struggles.
We are still amazing friends.
This all happened 4 weeks ago.

I know there is something worth saving, just don't know how to go about it.
How do you win your husband back?
What's the best way to reconnect. When he wants space.

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Tigerlily4 · 21/01/2019 21:05

@phonixK and @Kaybelle87 I’ve found myself reading your stories and wondered how you’re getting on? I find myself in a similar situation - been together with my husband for 13years and he’s just moved out as he needs space...

Ps never been on mums net before 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😂

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deviknesh · 27/01/2019 01:54

my husband mentions he needs a break from me as in a 1 year separation. we have been having numerous fights and over the years I have been putting him through so much of emotional stress and verbal abuse.
We have survived so many fights before but this is the first time he has mentioned that he wants to separate.
I want to save my marriage and I want to be a better person for him.
We just had our 2nd baby and he is four months old. My elder girl is 6 years old.
Please help me on what I should do to save my marriage.

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Nash82 · 19/03/2019 17:22

I tell you what, it's only a glimmer, but it does give me that bit of hope when I see this thread.

I'm two weeks down now from my wife telling me she no longer feels the same. It makes me feel so so sick all the time. I hope everything worked out for the OP.

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TherapyClient · 06/12/2021 22:05

How are things now, OP?

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