In short my husband has two children from his first marriage. I came on scene during the divorce. Children are 15 and 16. Boy and girl. Ex has always been decorative of me. She is a narcissist we have discovered. We had a daughter together who is 2.5 years old. We married last dec and his kids plaged big part in wedding. Since then his relationship has deteriated. We live abroad and he has to pay their school fees, medical. He was paying huge maintenance but our financial circumstances changed and he asked to pay lesser amount. She refused and tried to get him put in jail. He is still fighting in courts to keep himself out of jail. Now the daughter 16 started private school in uk which the mother enrolled her in. We couldn't afford so kindly the maternal grandmother offered to pay. Now the daughter is sending my husband the most awful messages. How he has moved on with new family and he is no father. I'm sure they are being told this by the ex. She thinks we have money hidden away. She was given $500000 in the settlement and was suppose to buy a flat. Instead chose to rent a 4 bedroom flat for $1600 a month. Using her capital. We have always included the children but we live so far from them we can't just drop everything and be there. We don't understand why now all the problems. She begged to go to UK. The ex we feel is saying awful things about my husband as a father that the children believe it.
Thanks