Divorce solicitor and retainer fees

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Hello again,

How common / normal is this? To charge the 3k as an upfront payment?
What if I don't want to rush the divorce due to health issues ? I'm really feeling pressurised.

Also, I went to a domestic violence support group, one stop clinic or something. Told them about Ex 's abusive behaviour hoping for support and all it's turned into is a lot of pestering phonecalls from a solicitor firm in East London pressing me to pay 2k to put an occupancy order in place.

Its all so overwhelming. I just feel that along with my evil ex, everyone just wants money.

Anyway I'm waffling, is the retainer fee normal and do I get it refunded if I don't use up that amount in services required?

Thanks in advance

I paid up front but only £500.

Never paid anything upfront, was always billed on a monthly basis for services used.

I always expect costs up front but £3K would be a lot unless there was a hearing imminent.

Normally I would ask for £500.

It is quite usual for solicitor to ask for an amount on account (up front) especially if you are not already a known client of theirs.

If there is any chance you need an injunction £3k would not be unusual.

As regards the DV Support Group they should not be handing over any personal details to anyone.

If you need an injunction ncdv will help you get one for free; either representatives via legal aid or support you as a litigant in person

Thanks for the replies.
I didn't make myself clear - 3k is what my solicitor is charging just to get through divorce proceedings if ex and I negotiate ourselves.
2k is what the solicitors at the one stop shop were charging for taking out court orders. They made valid points, but I lost my trust when they became pushy like salesmen - even calling on a Sunday.

Cantcatchthechicks thanks for that v useful information about ncdv...I shall investigate

Echo to pp - ncdv helped with my injunctions only cost to me was £100 to have the papers served on him. Went to court on my own in 1st instance, found a Mackenzie friend for return hearing (no charge, volunteer service in the court building - wish I'd known for the 1st hearing!). Good luck x