I'm really not sure what to do here - my ex has been seeing someone on and off for (what he says) is a year but since I've had 4 'let's try agains' during that period including one in January, I know it's clearly not been a committed year!
He told me last month that she was 6 months pregnant and would now like to introduce her to the children (I have two boys aged 6 and 7), leaving a double whammy of crazy for them to deal with in only 12 weeks before the half sibling arrives.
They have never lived together before, she is 40 years old with no children of her own and has only met the boys twice to date.
My ex has now told me she's moving into his rental property (we're not divorced yet still wrangling over finances) and I'm in a quandry what to do about the boys staying over. This relationship is clearly shotgun and unstable , they barely know the woman and I just don't want to rock their security etc.
Has anyone been in any similar crazy situation that can offer any advice on mine? Should I suggest no overnights until they are used to the situation or do I just suck it up and deal with the consequences?
Thanks!