I have been separated from my husband since August. He has continued to support me and our three children financially but he lost his job in December and the money is fast running out. I am going to put our house on the market this week. I have taken legal advice from a central London solicitor, which was helpful, but I can't afford to continue with her. I am also reluctant to start divorce proceedings if I can avoid it and am interested in finding a recommended mediator. However, my husband often becomes verbally abusive in the discussions we have one to one. He blames me for pretty much everything, even though the separation was instigated by him having an affair. In the midst of all this, he claims his mental health is threatened by his living arrangements - he has been staying in his brother's spare room for 9 months now - and is demanding to move back into the house.
I'd really welcome any advice and especially recommendations for solicitors and mediators that I could reach from shepherds bush. I'm happy to go outside London.