Just that really
Stbexh....can't pay either. I left 4 years ago for ow...left me with 2 dc's and debt in my name and rental that I couldn't afford. Uearsvog acting out and verbal and emotional abuse that was just getting physically. It took a long time to get to this place where I finally went to be free. He has bermtdiagnoised as borderline pd. With narcissism. Hasn't paid any mainternance for 2 years and flits between abroad and home while trying to find himself and start a new life.....repeat....MIL and new woman paying and enabling this. He still self harming etc. .
Looked at cost...is there any help? I work P/T but on zero hours.