We've just split in last few weeks and as tenancy is in my name and DS is only 3, my (ex) partner is going to move out. The thing is that I'm really worrying about how we're actually going to manage it. I'm self employed p/t and he's a teacher so we're basically broke most of the time. We live in a fairly expensive to rent area (not London) and I can't really see how we're actually going to manage to run two households. He doesn't want to borrow any understandably and we have no savings. Any advice? What did you do?