Hi
I'm wanting some advice from anyone that may have experienced something similar,
My husband and myself split up 16 months ago he moved out as I asked him too due to his unreasonable behaviour(lazy, selfish, stayed in bed all day,abusive towards me). I started divorce proceedings in august and as of next week should be able to apply for the decree absolute all going well. We have 3 children together aged 6,5 and 2. He was staying with his mum until a couple of months ago when he got a flat of his own and moved 10 miles away. At first I was letting him have the children every weekend as I was only able to work when they were at their dads however he has made no effort to get a job and has paid me £30 in all since he moved out of our home, I have currently stopped taking the children over and it took him almost 2 weeks to get in contact to ask where they were. He stated that he should not have to pay me anything towards the upbringing of our children as when he stays with him he feeds them so it costs me less! One of the reasons I'm not talking them over is the 20 mile round trip that I have to make whilst getting no financial assistance from him! I want to know if I'm being unfair by doing this? I'm not trying to use the children against him, I want them to see their dad and have a good relationship with him. any advice would be gratefully received? Thanks