I have been separated from my ex for 8 years and we are not divorced. No reason behind it just that we have always got on. Anyway the last year he has defaulted on payments and I am now left fending for our 2 kids and the mortgage on my own. I have been in touch with CMA and they cant find him either. I am at a loss where to go from here. I am struggling financially and don't know where the next meal is coming from. Any help or info would be appreciated :(