I dont even feel anything for him

[Jools1968]

I hate/loathe my husband...I cant wait for him to get the h... out of our lives...he disappears for 7/8months then walks in like nothing ever happened, pretends everthing is ok, asks whats for dinner, where as all i want to do is smash his brain.... instead quietly I walk into my room... how do I divorce someone who is still living under the same roof as me...

You sound exactly like I did once upon a time. You need to get some legal advice. Have a look on wikivorce online as a start.

Why can't you file for divorce?

Are you financially dependant on him?

This doesn't sound like much of a marriage at all. Is he working away for 7 months or what?

Hi, Sandy...we ve 2 kids, staying with him purely for the kids,no other reason..he is the one keep coming back, noone wants him back,not even the kids..We all have had enough of him, his stupid behaviours...