Just that really - I have finally made up my mind (!) and am looking for someone compassionate, easy to deal with and not massively expensive! In theory I would like the process to be collaborative although H is v tricky to deal with (monumental understatement) so that I may be deluded on that one. Good old Mumsnet has come up trumps on many important life decisions in the past, so I am wondering if anyone could start me off on this miserable process….