My wife and I split 3 or 4 months ago. We are not fussed about going through the whole divorce procedure at the moment and would rather give it the 2 years required to dissolve the marriage through living apart for 2 years.
Anyways. We have come to a mutual agreement on how things are to be split... property, finances, spousal support....etc. We actually have nothing in the way of assets so there's very little to fight over. No kids. It's all friendly at the moment.
What I'd like to know is how do we go about doing this? Can we just draft our own separation agreement, have it signed and whiteness by independent notaries and then live by the agreement until divorce? Do we need to have it drafted by a solicitor or do we need to go down the whole route of getting legal advice on what we're entitled to and all that?
If we can draft our own agreement, when eventually filing for divorce do the courts take the separation agreement into account when sorting things out or could it be completely disregarded and they decide whatever they like?
Any advice much appreciated.