My STBXH and I are trying to come to an amicable settlement ourselves, and I just want to know, I am receiving just above the basic payment for my 3 DCs, he's staying in the house (I moved out because he refused to) do I ask him to pay a set amount that he has been paying until they're 18 or should he be upping it periodically with regards to inflation, his wages rising, cost of living etc?