Husband of 9 years father of my 8 year old dd left 2 days ago after saying he didn't love me any more and didn't want to continue, I then found out he has OW.
So now in action mode. Main issue is the mortgage is joint and we have offset account. I work full time so have regular monthly salary going in, he runs his own business so very sporadic payments, sometimes salary sometimes dividends.
Since it's joint I can't do anything without him seeing and vice versa, but main issue is I don't know if he's filtering money off from his main business and not putting into the joint account.
What's the best way to protect myself?