... in the Bracknell or Reading area?
We are currently separated, but I think we are heading for divorce because the current situation, with OW involved, but my husband telling people that we may get back together, is making me ill and I think I need to make a clean break and try to get myself back on my feet, emotionally speaking.
Our finances are a quite complicated in that we own two or three properties that are rented out. The long term plan is that these would be our pension, we have no other pension provision. I don't know whether these would have to be re-mortgated if we divorce, this would be quite costly because the current mortgages have extremely favourable rates. We have two children that are both over 18, but that currently live in the family home, neither my husband or I live there. So I also need someone who can give good financial advice.
We are not fighting, we are friendly, so I'm hoping that there won't be any need to go to court.
And I'm so sad and scared that it has come to this :(