finalising finances, child maintenance query

[MissyMessy]

Hi

I'm in the final stages of finalising finances, and my ex has suggested via the solicitor, that even though he should pay more in child maintenance as per the CSA, I should take into consideration the expenses of travelling to continue contact with the DCs (one weekend a fortnight, 65miles there and back). His parents do all the dropping off picking up, so I guess he pays their petrol etc.

Also he has asked that I take over paying the £50 per child, into their trust funds every month.

Is this common practice?

Many thanks

No it isn't! The CSA will advise you on a reduction of maintenance due to travelling costs but the requirement is a lot more than 65 miles twice a month!! Re the child trust fund - up to him if he continues to pay it or not I reckon but if you can't afford to then you shouldn't either.