lately I've come to the conclusion that my partner loves himself a bit too much...in other words, i swear he wanks off at least once or twice a day. AT LEAST. now i have no problem w/ him doing what he needs to do in moderation, but it's become such that our relationship is pretty much devoid of intimacy; he has replaced masturbating w/ having a sex life w/ me. Also i'm realising that he may be taking part in this behaviour when I happen to be out of the house (creepy, as if he's 14 and i'm his mum or something) and sometimes this happens when he's supposed to be watching our preschool aged child. THIS, in my opinion is impermissible. The idea that he's doing such a thing whilst our daughter is innocently watching Cbeebies downstairs makes me see RED!!!!
My proof about such a thing is many, many times when i leave the house--to run errands on the weekend for example, i come back to a load of HIS clothes (namely underwear) washing in the washing machine (hmmm, that's interesting), or even more blatant, finding his underwear in the basket w/ wet, conspicuous stains on them. are all men ridiculous wanking monkeys? it makes me feel like he's a pervert.