Hey guys......what are you looking for in the fairer sex?

[Rocklover]

Split up with DH last July and feel ready to start taking a peep (out of the corner of my eye) at men again. Having not been on the market for a while (ahem), what on earth do you guys want?

I sincerely hope not size zero women as I am sooo not one. So go on give us a clue.

(By the way I am expecting lots of answers like big boobs...etc etc).

Gosh, is this thread still on the shelf???

Not suprised - The Men's Room is The Tumbleweed Connection ( v. old Elton John ref!).

Answer? Well, given that most men are infinitely trainable, you simply put your best foot forward, show what you have, and v. quickly they "look for" exactly what you have! Simple.....well, sometimes.

It's horses for courses and purely a matter of taste, and there's not a lot ultimately you can do about that. What does it for me in a woman would probably have a lot of other chaps reaching for wretching bucket.

Thanks for the answer....I guess I know all that really...just so bloody annoying having to start again!

I think Pann speaks sense here. I would add that I know very few of us who actively seek out "size zero" types. Lots of men like vivacious, voluptuous, curvaceous women. Especially if they are a bit "flirty and dirty" to boot.

Back when I was "courting" (blimey, seems a lifetime ago) I enjoyed: someone who had a big, winning smile, someone who laughed at my jokes, who didn't mention her ex (except, perhaps, VERY briefly to say what a tosser he was and how small his penis was), who loved to eat and drink (we don't generally go for salad-pickers), to read books, to explore new experiences, to have a laugh and a chat and to look as if she might, at some point in the future, be willing to get utterly filthy in bed.

Does that cover everything?

I think UQD speaks perfect sense here. I was just too shy.

Yes, I agree with UQD. Vivacious and lively women who enjoy a good discussion and like to flirt. I go for attractive eyes particularly.
I can't bear size zero. It's such a myth that most blokes go for that. Give me a nice big bottom any day!
(That's not a request btw)

Well, thanks for the honesty guys, makes for very entertaining reading lol. Flirty and dirty eh?....better hone my skills then!

I would hope that my bottom is not classed as too large, but it is not size zero lol, and now that I know that's fine I shall now breathe a sigh of relief and have that piece of cake.