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Feel like my life is over.

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Beatone · 13/02/2020 08:12

3 mornings ago I was awoken by the police knocking my door, they entered my home and explained that someone at my address had been viewing indecent images. I was horrified, there are two people at my home, me and my partner of 8 years.

They took our devices, scanned them on a machine, they returned my two phones and said I could leave if I wanted to, I then left. They scanned my partners phone but did not give it back, they kept our laptop and tablet also. He was not arrested as nothing was found. I have not seen him since.

They asked about children we see regularly. I told them about my family. My family have since had a visit from SS explaining me or my partner cannot have unsupervised access until the investigation is done. I am heartbroken. I spoke to the police and they said due to it being linked to the address they cannot pin it on a specific person as of yet. I am petrified to go to work incase they visit my job. I feel like the victim in all this. My life as I know it is over, through no fault of my own. I am successful and law abiding yet I am being punished. I really want to know what options I have.

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candycane222 · 13/02/2020 08:26

In your position I would definitely visit a solicitor to have the law and what tends to happen in these cases explained. Obviously the law ultimate ly is designed to protect children and innocent bystanders, but the uncertainty and unknowns as the process works its way through must be very very distressing for you. I think it would help you to get some firm information, and you may need advice on how to protect yourself and repair your life if your partner turns out to be guilty.

This must be absolutely horrible and noone will be able to tell you exactly what will happen but I m sure it will help to have some clear information

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