DD's first communion is in April. I'm not from Ireland so have no idea what the done thing is.
I am assuming the white fancy communion dress is a requisite (thinking of looking on Done Deal or adverts.ie, as money is tight and I don't fancy spending hundreds of euro on something that will only be worn for a couple of hours, but any suggestions as to where to get outfit under €200 greatly appreciated). does she need long sleeves or a cover up for church, and a veil?
What about the party? What does this "normally" look like? Do people expect food and drink laid on? Child entertainment? (DSIL had a very elaborate party for DN including venue hire, caterers, magician, kid disco, slushie machines. popcorn machine, child entertainers, a dress worth €800 for ceremony and multiple outfit changes during the day,... but she generally pushes the boat out on these things so I don't know if it usual/expected or more elaborate than most.