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How to get out of our flat

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Shitthebed24 · 19/10/2023 09:57

I don’t know if anyone can offer some general advice. I do have a call with citizens advice next week so can get more specific help then.
We are finding ourselves struggling with COL. I work 3 days (DC in nursery, cannot afford to increase, 90 per day and not eligible for any other help than the 20% tax deduction ) and I earn circa 15,000 pa. husband is full time earning shy of 40,000 pa. Our mortgage is variable as we’re looking to sell (2 bedroom small flat in Herts) and is currently 1300 a month. We’re cramped with family of 4 but trying to make it work. Due to it being shared ownership we also pay rent and service charge. We don’t own it all.

We’ve had 2 viewings since it went on open market and so desperate to sell. Initial plan is to move in with in-laws. We have 2 cars and pay for DC1 swimming lessons.
Looking at our finances we’re very much living month by month.
Does anyone have any advice or help? Our mortgage is killing us but if we lock into a fixed rate, we pay when we sell and as in negative equity we cannot do this either.

Any help appreciated!!!

OP posts:
AnotherEmma · 20/10/2023 18:07

Also, the term after DC2 turns 3, you will get 30h childcare funding, which will help.

(The government has also promised 15h childcare funding for all 2 yos from April 2024, and under 2s from Sep 2024, although I'll believe that when I see it!)

anonimoxyz · 20/10/2023 18:10

I'd really look at selling the car too. You might need to go back to a double buggy if one of your kids is an older toddler but plenty of people walk more than 2 miles to nursery- myself included. It's not fun, especially in the bad weather- but it could save you a fortune

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