DH and I have been married for 2 years now. MIL lives with us since DFIL passed away. She is a very judgmental person she didn't even approve of our relationship in the first place because when I and DH meet I was had just separated with XH. Unfortunately, at the time I was changing career which didn't take off which got me into a lot of debt, DH is understanding and we both agreed its time to take some action. MIL is always around and completely clueless and needs to stay that way, she will just make me feel terrible and insignificant if she finds out.
Is there any way I can find a way to deal with my debt without being on the phone or giving MIL any indication that I'm hiding anything?