Background: Split with now ExH in 2017 due to his control and violence. He moved in with his parents, then moved out and moved 2 hours away. He has overnight contact with DD (aged 6) at his parents house EOW as DD can’t travel to him (medical reasons). She’s obviously only had daytime contact with him EO Saturday since the restrictions came in. Ex-FIL in immune-suppressed due to his own medical condition, therefore ECV.
The news of the vaccine this morning has prompted ExH to ask me to have the vaccine and to let him know when I have it.
He says this is the best way to protect Ex-FIL from Covid and he’d feel more comfortable having DD if he knew I had it. He also showed me texts from Ex-PILs asking him to ask me if I’ll have it and let them know when I have.
I’m in two minds. They obviously know that DD has had all her vaccines as I keep ExH up-to-date with her medical stuff, and clearly want to protect both DD and Ex-FIL.
But the other part of me thinks it’s none of their business, while going through court I was very clear with cafcass that they were to hide any of my medical information from ExH and his solicitor unless it directly affected my ability to look after DD (my medical issues don’t and never have). ExH initially wanted full residency so that’s why I did it. I’m worried he’ll use me getting/not getting the vaccine (I’m undecided whether I’ll have it yet and I won’t be top priority to get it so I’ve got time to think about it) against me.
So WWYD?